Virgo and Gemini, these two zodiac signs have similar
attributes that make them attracted to each other up to a certain level,
providing spontaneity to converse and mingle with each other. They make great
friends for sure, but when it comes to marriage and life-long partnership,
these signs face many behavioral problems with each other. But if you, as a
Gemini woman, are willing to overcome them, you can balance your Virgo man’s
shortcomings with your positive attitude and vice versa.
Compatible Traits In Favor of Your Relationship
1. Mutable Nature to Get Along Well
Both of youare
open to change, although the pace might be slow. When two people in love want
to make their relationship work, realizing that both the similarities and
differences of their respective natures can be taken in their stride, nobody
can pull them apart.
2. Complimentary Attributes
Life requires both discipline and relaxation, in the perfect
balance. He can show the ever-so-enthusiastic you why it is important to tone
down at times and how having discipline helps improve one’s life. Similarly, you
can show him whyrigidity is not the
way all the time and that it is okay to let go of some rules to enjoy the
natural flow of life.
3. Sharing the Same Energy Level
Enthusiasm is one of the common traits you two share, so you
can use it to make the relationship strong and steady. Since as a Gemini, you
are looking for a change every now and then, a Virgo man will complement you in
this factor too, as he is more than ready to work harder to lead to good life,
especially if it means working on a relationship to keep his partner happy.
4. Common Intellectual Streaks
that it is a shared responsibility to get a relationship going. Differences
between two souls are inevitablebut
that could be a plus point as it ensures unpredictability and prevents things
from getting monotonous. Although, at times he might find it difficult to cope
with your whimsical nature as opposed to his desire for stability and security,
you are adaptable to slow down to be on the same level with your Virgo
Potential Reasons for the Relationship to Not Work Out and How to Overcome
1. Lack of Unpredictability
While Virgo’s element is earth, and Gemini’s air, similarity
is both the bane and boon for you. Due to your like-mindedness you find each
other approachable and get along well, but for the same reason, in a long-term
relationship you two lose interest in one another after a point.
Unpredictably is the essence of any relationship’s longevity
but in this match that is what it highly lacks. So, once in a while, set up a
nice romantic date for him or instead of a typical movie day out, opt for
camping or a picnic to surprise him.
2. His Methodical Approach
Unlike you, your Virgo man is known to be a planner and he
takes time prior to act on something serious. Since you rely more on your
right-at-the moment’s thoughts and spontaneous attitude, your partner’s
behavior on a daily basis might stress you out a little.
To add some spice in your life together, take him to an
unplanned vacation or do something impromptu that will make him realize that
letting go of planning is also a good idea once in a while. Gemini in general,
is blessed with a convincing power which is easily effective on their
counterpart, so use that power wisely.
3. Your Flirtatious Nature
He is most likely to be sensual, loving to have his own
approach, and thinks expression of love should be a private matter. On the
other hand, you are mostly flirtatious though not in a harmful way and
definitely do not take it seriously. So, misunderstanding may arise when he gets
jealous from these attributes of yours.
But given your loyalty, he will understand gradually that
you flirt for fun and nothing else. So, you have to win his trust at first and
then everything will fall into place. For example, if you two are attending a
party, try to return with him instead of staying back to let him see how you
value his company more.
4. Your Outgoing Nature in Contrast to His Homely Disposition
Geminis are always fun and independent, you being no
exception. At times you might feel tied down with the norms and perfections he creates
around you, and all his loved ones. He might like to stay at home during
holidays while you wish to spend the day on adventurous activities.
If you talk to him openly about all of this, try to
understand his point of view, then a lot of problems can be solved. Lend an ear
to his practical reasons and chances are most of them will be viable for your
relationship and finances. Whenever you are finding it hard to cope, just ask
for his opinions about what to do on a free day and he will have the best answer
that will be good for both.
Like any other successful couple, the combination of a Virgo
man and Gemini woman depends on their understanding of each other and a basic
adjustment power instead of compromising. Moving aside the astrological
factors, two individuals need to be in love to overcome any hurdle and so is
the case with this couple.